lessons of Nelson Mandela

As long as you hate your enemies you will continue to be their prisoner.


Do not allow negative emotions (hatred,resentment,bitterness) to control and consume your life.


This is why we are to forgive those who have trespassed against us (injured us),and why we must love our enemies, and do unto them as we would be done by.
...lest we become entrapped in and victimized by our own resentments (hatred poisons the soul of the hater)

It is said that harboring feelings of resentment against another person is like
swallowing poison with the expectation
that the poison swallowed will hurt the object of our resentment .
By far the greater harm is to the one/subject who experiences the resentment.

First you must free yourself of hatred and fear;
then you can help to free others.


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Bill Clinton's speach at the UN on the occasion of
Nelson Mandela's 95th. birthday:


. Bill Clinton, UN leader Ban Ki-moon and Andrew Mlangeni, who was a prisoner with Mandela, honoured the legendary freedom fighter in a special ceremony at the UN headquarters as Mandela spent his 95th birthday in hospital. Bill Clinton said Mandela ended his 27 years in an apartheid jail "a greater man than he went in" but also told how the ordeal had left its mark on the legendary figure. "Every day was a struggle, I could see it in his eyes even after he became president. Some old demon would rise up and somebody would do or say something stupid, but he fought it every day," Bill Clinton said at the UN General Assembly. Bill Clinton told how he had discussed with Mandela his now historic walk to freedom from the jail along a dirt road and how he had been a "canny politician" inviting his jailer to his inauguration and bringing opposition parties into his government. "Tell me the truth: when you were walking down the road that last time didn't you hate them?" Bill Clinton said he questioned Mandela. "He said briefly: 'I did. I am old enough to tell the truth.' He said: 'I felt hatred and fear but I said to myself, if you hate them when you get in that car you will still be their prisoner. I wanted to be free and so I let it go.' "He said: 'People can take everything from you. I lost my family, the chance to see my children grow up, the best years of my life. They can take everything except your mind and your heart. Those things I decided not to give away.' "He looked at me and smiled and said: 'Neither should you'." Bill Clinton said he was also one of the rare people alive who had seen Mandela "in a less saintly role" when the two were arguing as presidents of the United States and South Africa. "On rare occasions he would even get angry with me when he disagreed with our positions. But what I know is his heart was so big and his humanity so great we often had trouble keeping our official roles apart from our personal friendship," Bill Clinton said. Ban told the assembly the world is united in praying for Mandela in hospital. "We are united in concern. We are also joined in admiration for a towering figure in the worldwide fight for equality and justice," the UN secretary general told the ceremony. AFP 


http://www.rappler.com/world/regions/africa/nelson-mandela/34210-bill-clinton-mandela-tribute-birthday

"closed party" system of government is undemocratic

Closed party system of politics

One day of democracy(vote day) followed by 4 years of dictatorship

Instead of representing the people to govt. those elected to represent us
are constrained into the role of representing the govt. to the people.
Elected representatives become "trained seals" ,parroting scripted talking points
and tbe party line. (because maintaining power is all about "controlling the message"!)

They do not represent the wishes/interests of their constituents who they were elected to represent, but rather their first loyalty is to the party and its leader.


A political candidate must obtain the endorsement of the party leader before they can run under the party banner.
Thereby they become beholden to the
party leader, and loyalty to the party takes precedence over loyalty to their constituents

After that if you don't do what your told
you're kicked out of the party!...ostracized to the "outer darkness" and the status of "independent"
Critics and dissenters who don't "get with the program" are perceived as enemies.

Despite widespread lipservice to the idea of democracy, in practice it's a " one man government" wch when it occurs elsewhere is pejoratively called "dictatorship"!

To glimpse the true dynamics of "closed party politics" view:

http://www.cpac.ca/eng/programs/cpac-special/episodes/whipped-secret-world-party-discipline

16 year old Malala's message to humanity

Video of Malala Yousafzai at U.N. Calling on World Leaders to Provide Education to Every hild


http://m.bbc.co.uk/news/world-asia-23291897
http://m.bbc.co.uk/news/world-asia-23282662